Danish women

I guess in advance that this topic will receive both a lots of pros and cons but I am willing to face any arguments here. I do it with a pleasure indeed, just like Danish women are ready to face arguments  in their everyday lives too.
Okay, so, I for a long time now have been observing and finding the answer for that question/topic which is:

What makes Danish women so attractive?

I intentionally did not use the term beautiful because I think their secret of "beauty" is more within their attractiveness or appealing. Saying that, I found out what really makes them unique or attractive is that they are SELF CONFIDENT TO THE EXTREMES!!! Meaning of: Danish women do not give a shit about everyone else's opinion about their femininity or women-likeness. They are confident in their bodies, even though they do not fit into the so called "shape trends" aka the Western world dictated fashion in sizes. They are really fashion forward though, but they do not accept anyone tearing them down saying they are "not enough", "not feminine enough" not "cool enough", etc. 

It comes from the childhood and the way they were brought up; Danish environment in general is very self centered (not narcissistic!) and based on equality also when it comes to sexes and genders. Yet, for me, when I first came here, a not so self confident girl from a not self confident at all country (yes, Hungary is beyond low at embracing femininity) I have found it really attractive how Danish women behave and their laid back, cool, positive attitude really got me. 

I know, for most of the men it is "straight blond hair, blue eyes, sleek body, always work out, nice make up, etc. , but from an other perspective, I think it is coming from the inside. 

Moreover, I know really ugly looking Danes. Women who do not have an outside beauty in any way. Of course,  I know, I "should not" say that because "every woman is beautiful in a way" bah blah blah blah, BUT I do not believe in that. 

What I do believe in,in fact, is what comes from inside and what factors makes a woman a good woman.

Here I am not going to talk about the power of make up and a new cream which is going to give your youth back when you are gross, old, chubby, etc. What I am going to talk about here is kindness. Empathetic. Real. Motivated. Has morals and acts as she says. Listens. 

Danish women, au contraire, or as far as I got to know them do not have all these "women like" features I listed about. Or do they? Of course, I also aware that I should not generalize but in a way, Danish families are quite the same since the basic social system. ( I tried not using the word socialists). 

So, back to track: how on Earth is it possible for instance that this woman is so beautiful?

This is Mø. A very popular Danish singer. She is a woman.

Yes, her voice, but beyond that. What makes her beautiful? Her attitude? Her way of treating people? Her style? The message she is representing? 

Mø is real to me. I do not say she is beautiful because beauty based on pillars of aesthetics but now contrary again: is it only an opinion? 

Maybe I should not use a common media figure as an example. Media cheats. Bad media. 

BUT.

What I am trying to figure out and start a conversation about is: how can be someone be beautiful without being beautiful? To me, it is really interesting. I know many women and when I say I know them I mean I know them from head to toe and inside and out. Danish, and internationals. Many of them are not meeting the aesthetic standards. But they are beautiful, real and women to me because they ACT like a woman, they THINK like a woman and SLEEP like a woman.

I believe in genders and I also believe in equality. How is it possible in a world when we are going towards the androgynous human preface? (Here, if someone does not know what androgynous means: having both feminine and masculine features). 

In Denmark it is possible to be a woman(in western society) without treated as a woman (in eastern society). 

And this is cool. 

I like the way I am treated here as more of a person but having believed and stored my own feminine features.

And this is amazing.

Thank you Denmark.

NB: All of us should learn from Danish women! They also have a lot to learn from us, but self confidence is what they truly embrace. 

Amen.